Know the double meaning of emojis to keep your kids safe in school

Here's a list of emojis and acronyms to help parents understand the language often used by online predators, who use language to connect with youth.

The AFP-led Australian Centre to Counter Child Exploitation (ACCCE) is urging parents to understand the double meaning of emojis and acronyms to help identify if their children are being targeted by online predators.

AFP Commander Human Exploitation Helen Schneider said with many students receiving their own tablets and mobile phones for the first time ahead of their return to school, now was the perfect time for parents to have a conversation with their children about their online communication.

Commander Schneider said the AFP was today releasing a list of emojis and acronyms to help parents understand the language often used by online predators, who use language to connect with youth.

“Emojis and acronyms are commonly used in online communication and are usually harmless fun, but some have double meanings that are well known and some that are not.”

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Commander Schneider adds:

“Our recent experience has shown that in some situations emojis like the angry face emoji could be a sign that your child is the victim of online grooming. It is important to stress that in most cases it is probably nothing to worry about but having a healthy relationship with your children about their safety online can help you decide if there’s an issue.@

ThinkUKnow is an AFP-led resource that helps parents, carers, educators and children develop good online habits that protect children and deter offenders.

It provides factsheets, videos, presentations, guides, children’s picture book Jack Changes the Game, home learning and family activities to help with foster open discussions between children and their guardians.

Further, Commander Schneider observed:

“While we know parents often want to respect the privacy of their children, having honest and open conversations about what they communicate, and what is being communicated to them, could help prevent them falling victims to predators, many who pretend to be children or teens.”

She advcises:

“Electronic communication is constantly changing and it can be difficult for parents and carers to keep up. That’s why having a healthy dialogue with your children is the best defence you can have.@

Recent examples of emoji use

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cid:image006.jpg@01DA455E.C9D0AEF0Most commonly seen by ACCCE in chats between offenders and victims of financial sextortion. Usually used multiple times within chats. Example:“I am sending your images now and they will go viral”
cid:image008.jpg@01DA455E.C9D0AEF0Seen by ACCCE in reports of online grooming. Example:“You will like this”
cid:image010.jpg@01DA455E.C9D0AEF0Seen by the ACCCE in a range of reports, usually used in the intended context.
cid:image011.jpg@01DA455E.C9D0AEF0Seen by ACCCE in reports of online grooming. Example:“Want to know what I’m doing?”

Glossary of emojis, emoticons and acronyms

Catch a caseWillingness to being arrested and charged for something, often used in relation to sexual desire for someone who is much younger/under age
CD9 or Code 9Parents are around
DNIDo not interact, especially as a warning of explicit/sexual content for under 18s
DM;HSDoesn’t matter; had sex
DPWD*** pictures welcome
Down in the DMUsing private messages (DM=Direct Message) on social media to ask for nude photos and/or to filter through people to find a sexual encounter
GNRNGet Naked Right Now
GNOCGet Naked On Camera
LMIRLLet’s meet in real life
LMPLike my pic
NIFOCNaked in front of computer
NP4NPNaked Pic For Naked Pic
P911Parent Alert
PIRParent in room
POSParent Over Shoulder
POVPoint of view, and often indicates that a video is supposed to be filmed as if you’re seeing through someone else’s eyes
Rule 34Any topic can be made into pornographic content
Snacc/SnackA person you find attractive
Sneaky LinkSeeing someone for sex but you want to keep the relationship quiet
SmashTo have casual sex
TDTMTalk dirty to me
1174Nude club
143I love you
9Parent watching

Emojis and their potential meanings

Porn (rhymes with corn), can be used to get around word restrictions on social media
Feeling frisky or naughty
Desiring someone sexually (often used in response to nudes)
Nudes, which are often called “noods”
Used when sending or receiving nudes
Sexual activity
Spiciness eg. inappropriate or risqué content
Drunkenness, sexual arousal, or a grimace

Top tips for parents and carers

  • Keep your child’s personal information including full name and age private
  • Ensure the background of photos or videos doesn’t give away your address or location, (and don’t post your location or ‘check in’)
  • Avoid posting photos in school uniform
  • Only share images of your children with people you know and trust
  • For community accounts, consider having a closed group with approved members and ensure you have strong privacy settings in place.

This guide is meant to provide a broad overview because slang, acronyms, emojis and emoticons can have multiple meanings and be used in many different ways.

If you or someone you know is impacted by child sexual abuse and online exploitation, support services are available at www.accce.gov.au/support.

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